Happy 18th month, dearest Z!

“Babies are such a nice way to start people.”

-Don Herold 

We didn't really have anything to celebrate Z's 18th month with over the past weekend (oh, we did celebrate with a goddaughter's 1st!) . Although I had it in mind to at least get a small cake, Daddy A thought it's unnecessary. So let me just mark this milestone (it is, for me!) with this blog post. 

If you noticed, I stopped giving a month on month update about Z. That's on account of her growing to be her own person, and respecting her privacy and sense of self. Well I really am not sure she'll be thrilled to see her mom document every fart or tantrum, this side of the web! Hahaha :) 

But Z being 1 and 1/2 years old, to this mom, feels like the cusp of finally graduating to full toddler hood. It is indeed a milestone worth remembering, worth documenting. I don't know what this really entails. I just feel happy, proud and a bit melodramatic that we seem to be entering a new phase.

On a personal side, there are some dynamics of our baby care that's probably about to change. I dunno how soon but let me just assume that it's SOON enough, to treasure every bit of these special moments. 

BABY WEARING

Okay, we love our Tula baby carrier, still do! But, Z is getting heavier (and that's a good thing) and her Tula is getting smaller for her (even with the free-to-grow extension). I'm just worried that in a few more months, my back won't be able to take babywearing anymore. 

At this point, I'm seriously contemplating getting a Tula Toddler carrier, an umbrella stroller or maybe just bring back her Safety 1st stroller (which I think we haven't used in a year). Or all of the above!

BED-SHARING & CO-SLEEPING

Yes, as I shared in my previous post, we're still a bed-sharing and co-sleeping family. Sometimes it's a PITA especially when she decides to go perpendicular to us (if you have a little one, you'd understand why we dare not move her back -- baka magising!). King sized bed, really a good decision ---- no, this is the BEST decision ever! Hahahaha. Oh and if you want to know, we've taken out the bed frame to prevent falls, and of course (of course!) laid out colorful rubber mats around the mattress, in case she accidentally rolls to the floor.

What about her crib? Yup, what crib??? I guess she'll only take to it if she's really passed out asleep from her day's activities. Otherwise, I try for a "successful transfer" at least 3x a week so she'll get used to it. But 3-4 hours tops she'll be up and let us know (read: cry) that she wants to go back to our bed...maybe she thinks it's her bed?!?

BREASTFEEDING

Yep, still at it! Though I really wonder, does she still get a lot / something from it? It's not a 24/7 thing anymore but anytime we're out, I still have to be in breastfeeding clothes. I guess this is the major reason we're still bed sharing and co sleeping, it is by far easier to just lift the shirt than to get up in the middle of the night and prepare milk.

Right now I'm researching how to ease into weaning, both for her and my sake. I hope she doesn't get withdrawal anxiety and I won't get mastitis or anything remotely related. But, do I have to pump? Or maybe just get a weaning for dummies book...hehe, kidding! :)

Another consideration is how long will it take before she self-weans? My dad is betting Z will have me go to school when she wants mommy milkie! Hahaha..So while occupied with those thoughts, my mind wanders into this territory: what if, on the flip side, she suddenly stops..suddenly weans completely, cold turkey? Afraid!! You see, Daddy A himself considers this as a special power or gift of moms to babies. Both for the nutritive part and also for the ability to get her to sleep, to behave, etc.

Anyway, I just hope that it'll be a smooth transition when the day comes. I'll forever cherish that I was able to breastfeed at least this long!!

So what else is up?

We recently finished her Bert Lozada Swim School (BLSS) My Baby & Me program. She likes it so much I guess we have to enroll again :) Also loving her Gymboree Play & Learn sessions. I'm so glad that she's able to and actually wants to make friends with other kids :) --->stay tuned as I blog on these

We're training her to always be in the carseat when we travel. So far, 20-30% progress! Yikes! Aaaand, thoughts about school/education are being especially considered...double yikes! :)

If you want to talk with Z, here's your ultimate guide

Right now, Z is really a talker --> and I mean that in the best positive sense of the word. If you say anything to her, 98% chance she'll be able to parrot repeat it back to you. [Proud and gushing parent alert] Not only that, she's actually able to make small talk / communicate with us. And memorized a book (to her Lolo's pride), and sing-hum-babble nursery rhymes in tune, and remember people's names, and so much more!!

So without further ado, here are some words from Z's baby dictionary:

a-awi - go away; as in the rain rain go away song
abu - love you!
a-e-i - jollibee
ambum - album; yes we pore over the wedding and birthday album almost every night hihi
apul - apple
badet - violet; her Leap Frog stuffed animal
banens - violence. which she says while covering her eyes when she knows the TV is on
bigat - heavy
bijou - video
bikit - biscuit
bimbim - driving
bishet - bracelet
buntun - belly button
ding ding ding - hindi / no
duwing duwing - drawing as a verb or when she sees a pen
edi yaw - ayaw or no; i don't know who taught her this but that person probably wanted her to say "edi wow!" instead
edu - hello
haaak - hug
ingkong - aircon
kanggang - karga / carry
klay klay - suklay / comb
mamay - Mama Mary
mang - ninang / godmother
me-me - sleep
mina - Davina
minggo - Bingo (was his)
nimu - Name-o!
nonna - lola
nonno - lolo
one tu ti...maaaaaii - one to three smile!
pata - garapata / dog tick
pooot - fart
sary - rosary
shism - excuse me
tititititar - twinkle twinkle little star
umbowi - Gymboree
wiko wiko - hickory dickory
wiwim - swimming

and so much more! :)

Oh I just love this child....dearest Z, know that we are sooo proud of you and we love you always! Happy 18th month my (not so) little one! Looking forward to more (shopping? haha) adventures with you and Daddy A! Haaaaak! <3

Good Night! :)

It's not even the weekend yet but already we're so tiiiiiiireddddd!! Hahaha, serves us right for maxing our schedules! :p 

Anyway, our power's back on (something came loose with the internal cabling/wiring which affected electricity on our whole floor!) & the internet's okay..so glad to be able to get back doing work and stuff. Yep, talagang may "and stuff".

So here's our little co-sleeping, bed-sharing family picture...it makes my arms a bit sore in the morning (depending on which side little Z is sleeping) but no complaints. In fact, I'm really cherishing these moments that she's still a wee toddler, so I can pretty much hug, kiss, and smell her toddler head (read: you know what that means if they've been busy playing!) to let her know that we are always here for her and that she is always loved!

"It takes hands to build a house, but only hearts can build a home"

-Author Unknown 

Toddling Around in a Gymboree Class

[Note: All rates and information are as of April 2015 for Play and Learn 4 (PL4)] 

"Hello, hello, hello! Hello, how are you? I'm glad to see you too, and you and you and you..."

^That's a new hello greeting we learned at Gymboree! Yep, just one of the many songs we sang for Z's first Gymboree session, also called the preview (trial) class.

I have been admiring Gymboree venues even when I was still heavily preggo. What's not to like? The interiors look really clean, safe and fun too! My first impression is that it most definitely is an indoor playground with mats, foam paddings and wooden installments. Nothing too intimidating for kids with boundless energy. This particular venue we tried is quite accessible to us via LRT/MRT and I also like that it is sharing the same floor as the food court! Alam na kung nasaan ang mommy and baby pagkatapos :D

Sure helps that it is highly recommended by Z's tita, Teacher S! As a former Gymboree teacher, Tita Teacher S was able to guide us to choose the best time to start Z for this kind of activity and likewise, on which activity would suit her best.

So last April, we headed over to Gymboree Magnolia, for Z's trial "Play & Learn" class. We invited Z's grandparents so we can all together evaluate and care for Z while inside the class. And of course, to take video and photo snippets that we can share to you! :)

If you are interested in letting your child go to Gymboree, I really suggest you take a preview/trial class. There is a fee (around PHP 600.00 as of Apr 2015) which is good for one full 45-minute session. If you decide to finally enroll within two weeks from preview class, this fee will be deducted upon enrollment; hence it becomes, effectively, free! This is really better than committing a larger sum of money upfront and finding out later that it doesn't fit your needs or your lifestyle.

On the preview day, we made sure that Z was well-rested with her morning nap and had a sufficient meal. It's harder to decide if your child likes it if she's fussy/sleepy/hungry, right? We also explained to her before going what she should expect and how she's expected to behave -- at around 15 months then, I'm not sure she really understood but she was generally behaved and truly observant.

Upon arriving, she was given a name tag so that the Gymboree teachers will be able to identify her. My mom and I put on our socks (it's required of adults) and we had a few minutes of free play inside the area. At this point I was really glad I did not go alone hahaha...it's quite tiring to run after a small child who wants to keep on exploring! Besides, we weren't provided with lockers so I was forever paranoid with my things. So double thanks to Z's lolo who not only took most of the photos and videos but also stood by to make sure our things are safe :)

When the other kids started ambling about, the teacher then signaled for us to come together as the class was about to begin. So what did we do exactly? While I definitely couldn't remember each activity that we did, there sure was a lot of singing, playing and having lots of fun! As the session's name suggests, it's Play & Learn. It's where the kids are given the chance to explore, play, socialize, follow simple instructions and tire themselves with 'gym' activities - because ultimately at this stage, they really do learn by playing.

In the video you can see that even those who are not yet proficient in walking are encouraged to really join in the fun by exploring around the area, going up and down slides, passing balls to their classmates, pushing a big plastic log in good old teamwork fashion and sharing toys with others. I'm not sure what this is actually called but maybe the term "structured free play" best applies.

We ended up really tired (from chasing Z) and as I mentioned above, good that it's just a few steps away from my fave food court chains..aaaaahhh!!! I may have eaten my plate too (just kidding!) but when I saw Z, oh was she ever that tired...sleeping na agad!

The following day, I heard Z humming familiar Gymboree songs. It was a good sign for me, at least I know that she remembers and enjoyed the singing part of our first Gymboree play and learn session! :)

Please watch our video below and I hope our little FAQ below will be of help to you. Enjoy! :)

Gymboree-fic Day! from Andrew Lim on Vimeo.

Here are some things you might want to know about enrolling your child in Gymboree:

Gymboree Membership & Class rates

First off, there is a membership fee. The Annual Membership is P2,000 (with 5 GymPlay coupons) while the Lifetime Membership is P4,000 (with 10 GymPlay coupons). Lifetime membership is only until your enrolled child is 5 years of age.

The class rates will depend on how long and how often your child will attend Gymboree for his/her specific level. As of May 2015, Level 4 rates go like this: a once a week for one month will be PHP 3,800. If you want a longer enrollment with a more frequent class schedule like four times a week for 48 weeks, it could cost you PHP 96,000. (Note: These are the rates I got from April 2015, for Level 4 sessions. Best to call up your nearest Gymboree for updated rates).

Schedule

Gymboree offers once, twice, thrice of four times a week schedules. From what I gathered, you can arrive around 15 minutes ahead of schedule so your child can be better acquainted with the new surroundings and have a few minutes of free play before the actual session. 

Do make sure to give them a heads up before going so they can put you on their list.

GymPlay coupons

You use the GymPlay coupons if, as it suggests, you just wish to let your child play inside the premises (guided by the parent/chaperone). Regardless of your Gymboree base, you can use this in their other branches within the country. As of last discussion with them, they don't sell their coupons individually. It really comes with the membership. So again, for 1 year Gymboree membership you get 5 GymPlay coupons and for Lifetime Membership (up to 5 years of age) you get 10 GymPlay coupons.

Note that this does not come with the sessions such as Play & Learn, Music, etc. --> there's a separate fee for that, see below :)

Best time/age to start

I've seen "baby babies" in Gymboree. So just make sure to ask your preferred location on their minimum allowable age. As for us, we agreed to let her go to Gymboree when she can already walk on her own and is at least taking solids. We figured that if we let her start too young, she might just end up sleeping while in Gymboree or she might ask to just be nursed, sayang naman ang bayad :) Another plus to this is that we didn't need to carry her too much and at her age, there is already a bit of retention especially for the songs. 

Activities

Gymboree offers a lot of activities for every age group. At level 3 there are 2 offered classes, at level 4 (16-22 months of age), they have 4! Depending on how frequent you will go, you can even choose 2 different sessions for the week, such as:

   >>Play and Learn 4
    "Children explore patterns and sequences and play with peers during developmental games, while
     you support them to become competent problem solvers."

   >> Music 2
    "A new musical style is introduced each month to expose your child to lots of musical genres -
    Latin, Rock, classical and more."

   >> Art 1 (18-24 months)
    "Unleash your child's imagination in a world of hands-on discovery with our tactile table, songs,
    painting, story time and gentle movements."

   >> Global Kids 1&2 (18-36 months)
    "Let your child discover and explore different cultures through songs, games and art."

It's also nice to know that the teachers change up the activities every two weeks so your child won't get bored :)

What to Wear

Definitely wear comfortable clothes! Expect a lot of walking around, following/chasing after your child and floor activities. Stretchy pants would be good, very fitted skirts might be a bad idea. And remember that adults must wear socks at all times while inside the play area. 

Let your child come in comfy clothing too. As of last time, socks are optional for the kids. Note that the area can get a bit cold sometimes so be ready with a jacket / sweater or just long-sleeved shirts :)

Safety

As you can see from the photo and video, the area is pretty much padded with colorful mats. However, there are very small areas which aren't that's why it's still a must for us parents / guardians to be just near our child. If you decide to let your child wear socks inside the premises, it would be better to use one that has sole grips/rubber. Anyhoo, we are really required to be at arm's reach from our child at all times, just to be safe :)

A Gymboree Birthday Party?

Why of course! Just bring the food and the kids and the Gymboree teachers will take care of a few hours of party fun! As of April 2015, the Gymboree birthday party packages offered are:

   >>Standard Package

    PHP 14,800

   >> Deluxe Package (Gymbo Live!)

    PHP 19,800

    -2 hours of party fun for 20 kids (1 hour of activity on the play floor and 1 hour in the party room)

    -2 fabulous Gymboree teachers to facilitate

    -Gymboree gift for the birthday child

    -Gymbo party supplies (invitations, plates, cups, napkins and balloons)

   >> Music or Arts Party for 12 kids

    PHP 12,000

    -Non-exclusive use of playfloor

So, are you heading off to Gymbo for a preview class? Let me know how it goes, okay? Cheers to playing and learning at the same time! :D

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